shovels and rakes and implements of destruction

I can't answer this with a yes or no. My Mom does have money, and she gives it, but to get financial help I pretty much have to give away little pieces of my soul each time I ask. According to her, I am miserable because I don't have a steady man in my life. My kids are good and straight-A students because they were born that way, I had nothing to do with it, even though I have raised them on my own since they were 3/9 (now 15/21). I really can't talk to her about much personally because she is always right LOL. My things is, yours, like mine, will never change, don't worry if she is good or bad. She raised you, you turned out okay, and that is all that matters.