I NEED YOUR OPINION, FLIST!

[mass_hipgnosis]

So I just spent the night/morning talking my mother off a metaphorical ledge. And since apparently I am biased, I need your opinions. If, theoretically, a mother could have a long, involved, philosophical discussion about whether or not they are a bad parent with their ADULT child, and the adult child does not scream at them or whimper and run to the nearest therapist, the mother is probably NOT a bad parent, y/n?

My mother seems to think that because she isn't rich and able to give me my every material desire, hasn't been the first perfect person in the history of the universe and therefore set a flawless example, and I'm not featured in Forbes and/or deliriously happy with my life, she has somehow failed. I tell her that the fact that we have a strong relationship and I can talk to her about losing my virginity, stupid teenage experimental drug use, stalker ex-boyfriends, how hard it is to resist the urge to be mean and vindictive to someone who probably deserves it, and other life crises is more important than said Forbes feature/delirious happiness. She says I'm biased.

SO. OUTSIDE OPINION TIME.

Help me convince her that she is suffering from a severe case of Unecessary Overachiever.

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Comments

[kathickers.livejournal.com]

Well, my mom won't speak to her dad, and I will barely speak to mine, but she and I have a great reltionship. We can talk about anything, like you and your mom. I'd call raising a kid that you can have a real relationship with--talking like equals and involved in each other's lives (instead of silent loathing) is a win. Your mom sounds great. That's my 2 cents,anyway! :D